Crudely handled when dad got married (5)
I believe the answer is:
pawed
'crudely handled' is the definition.
'pawed' can be an answer for 'handled' (I've seen this before). I'm not sure about the 'crudely' bit.
'dad got married' is the wordplay.
'dad' becomes 'pa' (both can mean one's father).
'got married' becomes 'wed' (I've seen this in another clue).
'pa'+'wed'='PAWED'
'when' acts as a link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for pawed that I've seen before include "Manhandled" , "Roughly handled" .)