Defeat; bereavement (4)
I believe the answer is:
loss
<span class="explanation-format__ClueExplanation">This clue is a double definition.<br/ ><br/ >'<span class="explanation-format__original">defeat</span>' is the first definition.<br/ ><span class="explanation-format__explanation">(I've seen this before)</span><br/ ><br/ >'<span class="explanation-format__original">bereavement</span>' is the second definition.<br/ ><span class="explanation-format__explanation">(I've seen this in another clue)</span><br/ ><br/ ></span>
(Other definitions for loss that I've seen before include "One may be missed" , "Bandleader" , "Defeat - deprivation" , "disappearance" , "Financial reverse" .)