Everything to be found in quiet comments accepting kinky sex? (6)
I believe the answer is:
cosmos
'everything' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
'quiet comments accepting kinky sex?' is the wordplay.
'quiet comments' becomes 'coos' (I can't justify this - if you can you should believe this answer much more).
'accepting' is an insertion indicator (inserted letters are accepted).
'kinky sex?' becomes 'SM' (S and M, sadism and masochism).
'coos' going around 'sm' is 'COSMOS'.
'to be found in' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for cosmos that I've seen before include "Everything that exists" , "Universe as an ordered whole" , "The universe - a daisy" , "The entire universe." , "Universe as an ordered system" .)