In the kitchen, it's a confusing thing (5)
I believe the answer is:
mixer
'thing' is the definition.
The definition and answer can be both man-made objects as well as being singular nouns.
Maybe they are linked in a way I don't understand?
I can't explain the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for mixer that I've seen before include "Soft drink; type of tap" , "Socialiser" , "Device for cement or in kitchen" , "Drink to combine with alcohol" , "Food processor" .)