Someone like Tom or Remus (3)
I believe the answer is:
sam
'remus' is the definition.
Both the answer and definition are singular nouns.
Maybe there's a link between them I don't understand?
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for sam that I've seen before include "Boy" , "Casablanca piano player" , "Uncle" , "together once" .)