A cat gets cross with him (3)
I believe the answer is:
man
'a cat' is the definition.
(thesaurus)
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for man that I've seen before include "just one" , "Irish Sea isle" , "Isle of -; chess piece" , "Dude" , "Staff the island" .)