A charmer with wit and a bit of charisma (5)
I believe the answer is:
witch
'a charmer' is the definition.
(someone who charms)
'wit and a bit of charisma' is the wordplay.
'and' means one lot of letters go next to another.
'a bit of charisma' becomes 'ch' (I can't explain this - if you can you should believe this answer much more).
'wit'+'ch'='WITCH'
'with' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for witch that I've seen before include "Bad speller!" , "Enchantress" , "Female member of coven" , "Hag, crone" , "charming female" .)