A friend who'll wash up? (3)
I believe the answer is:
pal
'a friend' is the definition.
(I know that pal is a type of friend)
I don't understand the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for pal that I've seen before include "Bud" , "Brother" , "Buddy, chum" , "China" , "Mate, buddy" .)