A little hurt when one withdrew one's name (9)
I believe the answer is:
scratched
'withdrew one's name' is the definition.
'scratched' can be an answer for 'withdrew' (I've seen this before). I am not sure about the 'one's name' bit.
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for scratched that I've seen before include "taken from the field" , "Relieved an itch" , "Pulled out of contest" , "Scraped, scored" , "marked" .)