A mixed grill could be just too much for her! (4)
I believe the answer is:
girl
'a mixed grill' is the definition.
Although both the answer and definition are singular nouns, I can't see how they can define each other.
I don't understand the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for girl that I've seen before include "Maidservant" , "Miss" , "See 5" , "Lass" , "Maid" .)