A tip for the waiters, you say (3)
I believe the answer is:
cue
'a tip' is the definition.
(thesaurus)
I can't explain the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for cue that I've seen before include "Hint, prompt" , "Signal to players" , "Snooker player's stick" , "Signal for action" , "State of collapse, disaster" .)