About forty days in a little garden, relaxing (9)
I believe the answer is:
'relaxing' is the definition.
Although both the answer and definition are present participle verbs, I can't understand how one could define the other.
'about forty days in a little garden' is the wordplay.
'about' becomes 're' ('re' means regarding or about).
'forty days' becomes 'lent' (Lent is a 40-day fast in Christianity).
'a little' says to take the initial letters.
The initial letter of 'garden' is 'g'.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for relenting that I've seen before include "Becoming less severe" , "Giving way" , "Showing less severity" , "Letting up" , "Growing less severe" .)