Afraid to get married, for a start (4)
I believe the answer is:
awed
'for a start' is the definition.
I can't tell whether this definition defines the answer.
'afraid to get married' is the wordplay.
'afraid' becomes 'a' (this could be a standard abbreviation of which I'm unaware).
'to get married' becomes 'wed' ('wed' can be a synonym of 'get married').
'a'+'wed'='AWED'
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for awed that I've seen before include "Inspired with wonder" , "mouth open?" , "Overcome with reverence or wonder" , "Wade about, filled with wonder" , "Overcome with wonder or amazement" .)