Amis, peut-être, avec despot (8)
I believe the answer is:
martinet
'despot' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for martinet that I've seen before include "Despot" , "A strict disciplarian" , "Disciplined type" , "Rigorous figure" , "A rigorous operator" .)