An arresting thing to say to a sailor? (5)
I believe the answer is:
belay
'sailor?' is the definition.
Although both the answer and definition are singular nouns, I don't see how they can define each other.
I don't understand the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for belay that I've seen before include "Turn a rope round something to secure it" , "Make fast" , "Stop" .)