An attractive thing to say (4)
I believe the answer is:
come
'say' is the definition.
The answer and definition can be both to do with fundamental existence as well as being verbs in their base form.
Maybe there's a link between them I don't understand?
I cannot understand how the remainder of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for come that I've seen before include "' - - fly with me'" , "Draw near" , "See 13 across" , "Turn up" , "Rude aggressive youth" .)