Antipodean website for swapping of couples (4)
I believe the answer is:
kiwi
'antipodean' is the definition.
(someone from New Zealand, one of the antipodes)
I don't understand the remainder of the clue.
(Other definitions for kiwi that I've seen before include "Fruit and flightless bird" , "Sacred Japanese peak" , "Flightless New Zealand bird" , "New Zealander (informal)" , "Hairy fruit with green flesh" .)