Ask questions about one showing self-assurance (5)
I believe the answer is:
poise
'self-assurance' is the definition.
(I've seen this in another clue)
I cannot understand how the remainder of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for poise that I've seen before include "Aplomb" , "Dignity and assurance of manner" , "Dignity; equilibrium" , "Grace; equilibrium" , "Elegance" .)