Being merry can be difficult! (5)
I believe the answer is:
tight
'difficult' is the definition.
(similar in meaning)
I cannot understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for tight that I've seen before include "Trim" , "It's not enough" , "Miserly (informal) - drunk (informal)" , "happy" , "reluctant to buy a round?" .)