Celebration of one side, each grabbing the other (7)
I believe the answer is:
revelry
'celebration' is the definition.
(I know that revelry is a type of conviviality)
I cannot understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for revelry that I've seen before include "Noisy celebration" , "Riotous feasting" , "Merrymaking" , "Lively celebrations" , "Feasting, noisy festivities" .)