Cobbler perhaps hardened, but slow to anger (5-8)
I believe the answer is:
sweet-tempered
'slow to anger' is the definition.
I can't tell whether this definition defines the answer.
'cobbler perhaps hardened' is the wordplay.
'cobbler perhaps' becomes 'sweet' (I can't justify this - if you can you should give a lot more credence to this answer).
'hardened' becomes 'tempered' (synonyms).
'sweet'+'tempered'='SWEET-TEMPERED'
'but' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Another definition for sweet-tempered that I've seen is " Of a kind and amiable disposition".)