Come away looking awfully coldhearted, when older constituents are abandoned (6)
I believe the answer is:
detach
'come away' is the definition.
(I know that come away can be written as detach)
I cannot understand how the remainder of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for detach that I've seen before include "Take away -- the cad (anag)" , "Disengage (something) and remove it" , "Disengage, unfasten" , "Remove from something else, say a coupon" , "free" .)