Concubine loses son three times in joint (5)
I believe the answer is:
mitre
'joint' is the definition.
(mitre joint is a kind of joint)
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for mitre that I've seen before include "Timer for a bishop." , "Timer (anag.)" , "Episcopal headdress" , "in which one might find a bishop" , "Bishop's headwear" .)