Condescend to let daughter be queen but not lead (5)
I believe the answer is:
deign
'condescend' is the definition.
(synonyms)
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for deign that I've seen before include "Be pleased" , "Think appropriate" , "consent" , "Seem supercilious" , "Condescend; stoop" .)