Courteous and refined in manner (6)

I believe the answer is:

urbane

(Other definitions for urbane that I've seen before include "Cultured" , "Refined and civilised" , "Suave, refined, courteous" , "Unbare, being suave." , "Cosmopolitan" .)

I've seen this clue in the Sydney Morning Herald.

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