Crushes a relative (7)
I believe the answer is:
stepson
'relative' is the definition.
(stepson is a kind of relative)
I don't understand how the remainder of the clue works.
(Other definitions for stepson that I've seen before include "second family member" , "Relation, not by blood" , "Male offspring of partner's former marriage" , "younger member of family" , "partner's sprog" .)