Cultured (7)
'cultured' is the definition.
(I know that cultured can be written as genteel)
This is all the clue.
(Other definitions for genteel that I've seen before include "Well mannered" , "Refined in taste and manners" , "Exaggeratedly polite" , "Courtly, cultivated" , "Marked by refinement in taste and manners" .)
'cultured' is the definition.
(synonyms)
This is all the clue.
(Other definitions for refined that I've seen before include "Free from vulgarity" , "Urbane" , "Purified, oil say" , "With impurities removed" , "Just like the cultured" .)