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Date you might not put on the calendar

Ross

I believe the answer is:

tryst

(Other definitions for tryst that I've seen before include "Secret rendezvous between lovers" , "meeting-place" , "Lovers' assignation" , "private meeting" , "Pre-arranged (secret) meeting" .)

I've seen this clue in The New York Times.
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