Dated girl obliged to get picked up (4)
I believe the answer is:
maid
'dated girl' is the definition.
'maid' can be an answer for 'girl' (I've seen this in other clues). I am not certain of the 'dated' bit.
I don't understand how the remainder of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for maid that I've seen before include "daughter?" , "- - -of-all-work" , "Damsel" , "One in service" , "employee" .)