Dealt with cheese, irritated (6)
I believe the answer is:
grated
'irritated' is the definition.
(grating is a kind of irritating)
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for grated that I've seen before include "was jarring" , "Rasped, perhaps on nerves" , "Rubbed harshly as on nerves" , "Shredded (eg, carrots)" , "Nutmeg and cheese often are" .)