Don't have such a ripping time if you want to be dry-eyed (8)
I believe the answer is:
tearless
'be dry-eyed' is the definition.
(synonyms)
I cannot understand how the remainder of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for tearless that I've seen before include "betraying no emotion" , "Dry" , "without displaying sorrow" , "stiff upper lip" .)