Don't start arguments and beatings (6)
I believe the answer is:
lashes
'beatings' is the definition.
The answer and definition can be both acts as well as being plural nouns.
Maybe there's a link between them I don't understand?
I don't understand the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for lashes that I've seen before include "they could be batted" , "Blows delivered with a whip" , "on the lid" , "Binds" , "Strikes with a whip" .)