Duck not about to become friend (6)
I believe the answer is:
quaker
'friend' is the definition.
('Quaker' can be a synonym of 'friend')
I don't understand the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for quaker that I've seen before include "Frightened" , "One of the Religious Society of Friends" , "religious type" , "Member of the Religious Society of Friends" , "Member of a pacifist sect" .)