Either enjoy - or not! (4,2,2,4,2)
I believe the answer is:
like it or lump it
(Other definitions for like it or lump it that I've seen before include "Enjoy it or put up with it (4,2,2,4,2)" , "Dismissive remark" , "If not digging, stick" , "You're stuck with that" , "accept this willy-nilly" .)