Even for the middleman keeping a level head is the best option (5)
I believe the answer is:
ideal
'best option' is the definition.
'ideal' can be an answer for 'best' (I've seen this in another clue). I'm not certain of the 'option' bit.
I don't understand how the remainder of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for ideal that I've seen before include "Just the ticket" , "fanciful" , "existing only in imagination" , "Nonpareil" , "principle to be aimed at" .)