Everything I invested in fling, romantic affair (9)
I believe the answer is:
dalliance
'romantic affair' is the definition.
'dalliance' can be an answer for 'affair' (dalliance can mean a romantic affair). I am unsure of the 'romantic' bit.
'everything i invested in fling' is the wordplay.
'everything' becomes 'all' (all things).
'invested in' means one lot of letters goes inside another.
'fling' becomes 'dance' (I've seen this before).
'all'+'i'='alli'
'alli' put into 'dance' is 'DALLIANCE'.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for dalliance that I've seen before include "amorous play" , "Flirtation" , "Playing" , "time-wasting action" , "Fling" .)