Exciting time for daughter, going round university with some emotional shock (9)
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I believe the answer is:
traumatic
'with some emotional shock' is the definition.
I cannot understand how the rest of the clue works.
(Other definitions for traumatic that I've seen before include "Psychologically damaging" , "Deeply distressing" , "Emotionally shocking" , "Deeply disturbing" , "Psychologically painful" .)