Extinct language only Army and RAF used? (4)
I believe the answer is:
norn
'extinct language' is the definition.
(Germanic language once spoken in parts of Scotland)
I cannot understand how the rest of the clue works.
(Other definitions for norn that I've seen before include "Former Orkney/Shetland language" , "Orkney/Shetland tongue" , "Old language of Orkney and Shetland" , "Amundsen's fate" , "Form of Norse formerly spoken in Shetland" .)