Extremely important not to start appealing (4)
I believe the answer is:
cute
'appealing' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
I can't explain the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for cute that I've seen before include "Winsome" , "Endearingly pretty" , "winning" , "Location" , "Endearing" .)