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Father torn apart by time and funding (9)

Ross

I believe the answer is:

patronage

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'funding' is the definition.
The definition and answer can be both acts as well as being singular nouns.
Perhaps you can see a link between them that I can't see?

'father torn apart by time' is the wordplay.
'father' becomes 'pa' (pa can mean dad or father).
'torn apart' becomes 'tron' (I can't explain this - if you can you should believe this answer much more).
'by' says to put letters next to each other.
'time' becomes 'age' (an age is a period of time).
'pa'+'tron'+'age'='PATRONAGE'

'and' is the link.

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(Other definitions for patronage that I've seen before include "custom in restaurant?" , "financial backing" , "Regular custom" , "supporting role" , "Condescension" .)

I've seen this clue in The Daily Express.
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