Felt guilt about lacking etiquette in speech (4)
I believe the answer is:
rued
'felt' is the definition.
(ruing is a kind of feeling)
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for rued that I've seen before include "Was contrite about" , "'Regretted, repented (4)'" , "Was sorry" , "Bitterly regretted" , "was remorseful" .)