Female gave a kiss when nagged (9)
I believe the answer is:
henpecked
'nagged' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
'female gave a kiss' is the wordplay.
'female' becomes 'hen' (hen is a kind of female).
'gave a kiss' becomes 'pecked'.
'hen'+'pecked'='HENPECKED'
'when' is the link.
(Other definitions for henpecked that I've seen before include "Nagged and brow beaten as by wife" , "Domineered by wife" , "Harassed" , "Of husband, bullied as by domestic fowl" , "Dominated by wife" .)