Fight about the dishwasher, say (4)

I believe the answer is:

spat

(Other definitions for spat that I've seen before include "Short gaiter or slight quarrel (4)" , "Contretemps" , "Small quarrel between Pats" , "Pat's involved in petty quarrel" , "Disagreement" .)

I've seen this clue in the Universal.

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