Find there's a role for men, not me! (5)
I believe the answer is:
learn
'find' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
'a role for men not me' is the wordplay.
'a role for' becomes 'lear' (I am not sure about this - if you are sure you should give a lot more credence to this answer).
'not' indicates named letters should be taken away.
'men' with 'me' removed is 'n'.
'lear'+'n'='LEARN'
'there's' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for learn that I've seen before include "Be educated" , "Study (at school?)" , "Renal (anag)" , "Read up on" , "Ascertain" .)