Forename of a fatherly EastEnder (3)

I believe the answer is:

pat

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(Other definitions for pat that I've seen before include "Small butter piece" , "Touch gently; glib" , "Knob (of butter)" , "Touch; name" , "well-rehearsed" .)

I've seen this clue in the Evening Standard.

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