Garden flower that’s female outside, male inside (7)
I believe the answer is:
verbena
'garden flower' is the definition.
(flower that might be grown in a garden)
I don't understand how the remainder of the clue works.
(Other definitions for verbena that I've seen before include "Herbaceous plant" , "Garden plant" , "Ornamental plant with showy flowers" , "Vervain (plant)" , "Ornamental pant" .)