Getting hitched, having an affection for (10)
I believe the answer is:
attachment
'getting' is the definition.
The answer and definition can be both acts as well as being singular nouns.
Maybe there's an association between them I don't understand?
I don't understand the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for attachment that I've seen before include "Fond regard" , "communicated via e-mail" , "what might accompany 50 [EMAIL]" , "Means of securing" , "File with an email" .)