Getting really pally with is stupid (5)
I believe the answer is:
thick
'is stupid' is the definition.
(similar in meaning)
I don't understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for thick that I've seen before include "Concentrated" , "Stupid (as two short planks?)" , "Friendly" , "Slow" , "Broad; dense" .)