Grasping we’ve upset the well-known singer (4)
I believe the answer is:
diva
'singer' is the definition.
(diva can mean a female opera singer)
I don't understand the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for diva that I've seen before include "One who sings" , "Avid like opera singer" , "Top opera singer" , "Prima dona" , "Great singer" .)