Gratuities regularly shunned; at a push, Everyman will chip in (4)
I believe the answer is:
tips
'gratuities' is the definition.
('tip' can be a synonym of 'gratuity')
I cannot understand how the remainder of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for tips that I've seen before include "Useful hints" , "Ends" , "Hints or gratuities" , "Gratuties" , "extra payments" .)